Definitions

from The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, 5th Edition.

  • adjective Having or showing qualities or characteristics more often associated with females than males; unmanly.

from The Century Dictionary.

  • To make womanish; unman; weaken.
  • To grow womanish or weak; melt into weakness.
  • Having the qualities of the female sex; soft or delicate to an unmanly degree; womanish: applied to men.
  • Characterized by or resulting from effeminacy: as, an effeminate peace; an effeminate life.
  • Womanlike; tender.
  • Synonyms Womanish, etc. (see feminine), weak, unmanly.

from the GNU version of the Collaborative International Dictionary of English.

  • adjective Having some characteristic of a woman, as delicacy, luxuriousness, etc.; soft or delicate to an unmanly degree; womanish; weak.
  • adjective Womanlike; womanly; tender; -- in a good sense.
  • transitive verb To make womanish; to make soft and delicate; to weaken.
  • intransitive verb To grow womanish or weak.

from Wiktionary, Creative Commons Attribution/Share-Alike License.

  • adjective of a man or boy Having behaviour or mannerisms considered unmasculine or typical of a woman or girl; feminine.
  • verb archaic To make womanly; to unman.

from WordNet 3.0 Copyright 2006 by Princeton University. All rights reserved.

  • adjective having unsuitable feminine qualities

Etymologies

from The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, 4th Edition

[Middle English effeminat, from Latin effēminātus, past participle of effēmināre, to make feminine : ex-, ex- + fēmina, woman; see dhē(i)- in Indo-European roots.]

from Wiktionary, Creative Commons Attribution/Share-Alike License

From Latin effēminātus, past participle of effēmināre.

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Examples

  • For instance, the King James Version uses the term effeminate which is an offensive term to describe a man whose behavior, appearance or speech is considered to be more similar to that of females.

    unknown title 2008

  • It's the "unbecoming" part that leads me to associate the word effeminate with a degree of campiness that I don't believe applies to Renly and Loras.

    Meet GRRM and (maybe) cast and crew 2009

  • But the male assumes his influence to be normal, human, and the female influence as wholly a matter of sex; therefore, where women teach boys, the boys become "effeminate" -- a grievous fall.

    The Man-Made World; or, Our Androcentric Culture Charlotte Perkins Gilman 1897

  • The adjectives and derivatives based on woman's distinctions are alien and derogatory when applied to human affairs; "effeminate" -- too female, connotes contempt, but has no masculine analogue; whereas "emasculate" -- not enough male, is a term of reproach, and has no feminine analogue.

    The Man-Made World; or, Our Androcentric Culture Charlotte Perkins Gilman 1897

  • His complexion might in itself be called effeminate, its bloom was so fresh and delicate; but there was so much of boldness and energy in the play of his countenance, the hardy outline of the lips, and the open breadth of the forehead, that "effeminate" was an epithet no one ever assigned to his aspect.

    The Parisians — Complete Edward Bulwer Lytton Lytton 1838

  • His complexion might in itself be called effeminate, its bloom was so fresh and delicate; but there was so much of boldness and energy in the play of his countenance, the hardy outline of the lips, and the open breadth of the forehead, that "effeminate" was an epithet no one ever assigned to his aspect.

    The Parisians — Volume 03 Edward Bulwer Lytton Lytton 1838

  • I wonder how much the boys' recourse to "prescribed" externalizations of genuine depression-- particularly boys who have a real hangup about being "effeminate"-- winds up in the form of almost exclusively emotionally abusive relationships.

    Gender: A Question of Diagnosis? JLK 2009

  • If men engage in homosexual act or a homosexual relationship and they are perceived as being effeminate, that is when they are more likely to be the victims of persecution.

    CNN Transcript Sep 27, 2007 2007

  • In other cultures he might be described as effeminate and, therefore, be an object of derision.

    The Kaisho Lustbader, Eric 1983

  • That which is soft and effeminate, which is calculated to excite the passions, by multitudes of ambiguous expressions, (not the less dangerous for being so cloaked) should be considered by Christians as an abuse the more deplorable, as it has even been censured and condemned by the pagans.

    The Life and Legends of Saint Francis of Assisi Father Candide Chalippe

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  • Has anyone ever seen this used as a transitive verb?

    September 17, 2007

  • Hmm...interesting concept....

    September 17, 2007

  • You mean like that thing Richard Simmons does? Probably best as an intransitive, seeing as how it affect us all indirectly... ;-)

    September 17, 2007